Tuesday, December 26, 2006

In the Beginning....

3rd Uncle and Baby Me!

Dear Ben,

Promised to tell you about Daddy’s life. So here goes…

Once upon a time… in a far far away land, in a hulu kampong called Simpang Bedok, there stayed a Lim’s family! After a certain major event of North (your Nai nai) meets East (your Ye ye), Your Daddy was created! Keke…

I can’t recalled much of the events that happened cos I was too young to remember but after a few years later, your 1st aunt was also created!! Wahaha! But because my’s Pa and Ma weren’t doing very well then, me and your aunt were raised separately with our grandparents. Me in kampong Bedok while your aunt’s in kampong Sembawang. You probably dunno what’s a kampong since you were born in a time where there were no more kampongs but HDB flats.

Well, daddy likes kampong life very much cos it offered me freedom to run about. There were no gates to hold me down. According to your Ye ye, we stayed on top of a hill and your great ye-ye actually own the hill!! Cool ya? There’s only a handful of families staying in the kampong whom I dun remember any of them but we all had our own little farm. We grew our own vegetables, had our own fruit trees like Rambutan, Durian, Jambu and Jack fruit trees. We even rear our own animals. Mainly pigs, duck and chickens! Well, it’s something like a farm come to think of it but to me that kampong life to me.

Since young I knew I grew up to be very wild and always up to mischiefs!! Wahaha! Cos your Nai nai always said I would run around naked with my little brother hanging between my legs! Lol… I would always run naked to the nearby neighbors and disturbs their dogs or go climb on a Rambutan tree! Come to think of it, I’m very lucky that the dogs din even bite my sausage off! Wahaha! I was very wild! I was very young! I really misses those days!!!





Daddy.


Me with my Milk Bottle.


I know I was Good Looking, But I din know I was that good!!! Wahaha!


Man, I look hot in this Pic! Young Ah Beng in the making! Ho ho.

Monday, December 25, 2006

Writing my Blogs


The one and only!


Hi Ben,

It's Christmas today! Daddy like to wish you a Merry Christmas and hope you would enjoy and receives lot's of presents and gifts today!! Daddy just wanted to inform you that the photos that Daddy be uploading were very old and because there weren’t any digital camera then, I had to take my digital camera to shoot the old hard copies straight from my photo albums!

There would be shots where you’ll see my reflections or images of me taking a picture. Please bare with it, ya? Rest assured it’s not some spooky sighting of the things from other dimensions. Heez. Hope you will enjoy Daddy’s subsequent entries.


Love,
Daddy.

Sunday, December 24, 2006

Where you go...?


Dear Ben,

How have you find Daddy's Blog so far? I hope it's good cos i spent quite a lot of my time on it. Anyway, i have chosen the song 'Where'D You Go?' from Fort Minor (Linkin Park) as my Blog's music. Chosen this cos i felt that you would probably be wondering the same thing about where Daddy go?

But in case you forgotten, Daddy actually visited you yesterday morning (23 Dec 2006 at 9 am) while you were still sleeping. Came with your Ye-ye and Nai-nai, but cos your mom and grands had went out, we do not have the keys to go into the house. Saw you when you woke up and came to the door. I was amazed at how tall you had grown and how much you had changed as Daddy could barely recognise you anymore. My poor boy... you look so weak... your mom said you have always been weak! Hoped you will take care of yourself!

I promised i would visit you as often as i could so that you will not forget Daddy and will always think of you everyday when i listen to this song knowing that my boy is thinking and missing his Daddy....


Love,
Daddy.
(PS: Merry Christmas! Daddy misses and loves you! Hugs and Kisses!)

Monday, December 18, 2006

To start first....

Ok, here some additional info that i thought you might wanna know in case your mom dun tell you. This are my bio data...

Pic taken when Daddy's 33 yrs!


Name: Lim Anthony (hmm... your grandpa forget to choose a dialect name for me...)
Chinese: Lin Dao Rong (Alias: Kuang Sheng)
NRIC: S7340882B
DOB: 12 Nov 1973
Religion: Christian (But i do go to temple. God is Great and Opened minded!)
Dialect: Hainanese
Star Sign: Scorpio! (What the book say about Scorpio applies to me as well)

Address: Tampines, Blk 427 (Tat's all i can give... provided i still live here...)

Favourite Colour: Brown, Blue and Pink. (Nope. Daddy's not girlish!)
Favourite Food: Lots of them... Lol.. Sushi, Soya Bean(Tao Huai)and Nuts!!
Favourite Drinks: Milk(plain and strawberries!)!! Soya Bean drinks!!!

Hates: Spiders!!!! Eeeek!!! (Daddy was a spider bully before until i had a terrible spider nightmare when i was very young! Your mom knows about it too!)

Hobbies: Comics, Toys, Swimming, watching Animes and playing games(PS2)!!!

About myself: I'm actually a happy go lucky person. Positive and even sensitive! your grandma was a very strict person and still is! Very fierce and would always scold me and nags! used to get alot of beating from her when i was a kid! But i know it's for my own good! Lol...

I'm also very emotional and like to cries...ALOT! Your mom know this too... not sure if it's due to this crying mole Daddy had under my left eye. I would even cries while watching cartoon! Hahaa.. funny rite? Wondered who do you take after? What's your character's like? Your mom's or mine? Hmm.. Hope you on't get het tempers!

To continue... Daddy had always been very simple minded and even naive as what some people would say about me. But I always feel that it important to always treat people the way you wanted to be treated back! Be trueful to them and they be trueful to you too. Sure, at times, people will make use of you! But for the sakes of those minority who don't and really believes and need you, be strong! Believe in yourself and do your best for them! Just as long as it's not anything illegal and would hurt others! Daddy always believes in 'Yi3 De2 Fu2 Ren2'!! And hates to hurt people... especially those you cared for. So far the only people I hurt is your grandparents, your mom and perhaps youself. Daddy's very sorry about that. But I do love you all! Especially you and your mom.

I would frequently think of the wonderful time we had together! Even thou it was very short. Your Mom left me when you were only 2, bringing you to live with your grandparent. You probably won't remember it but you were crying very badly for me at the grandparents place when i left you then. Reaching out your small little hand for me at the game and crying out 'Daddy! Daddy! Daddddyyyy!!!' Daddy cried in the lift and on my way back home... I remember this very well and would always cried when thinking about you. Daddy really loves you! Shit!! I'm even crying now while i'm typing this! Daddy really sorry for causing this to you and for not giving you a happy and warm home! I'm deeply sorry!! If ever i'm able to make it up to you, i'll do it. This i swear to God! Daddy really misses kissing you and hugging you, my dearest boy! Please be Happy and healthy! And do treat your mom well! No matter what! And Dun ever forget your surname is Lim!! And your name's always Benedict, Lim Shi yi!



Loves,
Daddy.

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Uploading of Photos...


Ok, Daddy have been digitising all my old photos so that i can put them in this blogs... for you. While doing so, daddy is also upgrading my other Blogs. Heez. You can go visit them if you like.

Take care of yourself. Hope you and your mother are doing fine.


Daddy.

Sunday, December 3, 2006

My First Entries. For my son, Ben...

Dear Ben,

My dear child, this is your Daddy here. I'm so sorry that i have not been able to provide for you and your mommy nor have i been able to perform my duty as a loving father to you. I'm also not sure if you ever get to read this. And even if you did, i wondered how old would you be then? Would i still be around? What would had changed?

Believe me, son, there are no living parents who doesn't love or care for their children. For the child is also a part of the parents. And Daddy do really really love you and misses you very much and no matter what! Thou due to some problems, your mom and Daddy had chosen the path of divorce and therefore the time spent together are lesser and lesser now.

That's why i hope to leave behind a part of my memories to you in hope that you will someday read them and remember me by. You can choose not to love me but please don't hate me!


Love Daddy.

Friday, December 1, 2006

It's Done! Yippe!!


Finally!! It's completed. Another masterpiece!! The Beta is much user friendly as compared to the sister counterparts. And Wohh... look at the counter jump. It's now above 100 counts since 9 am this morning! Heez.



Now, to start putting my entries to fill it up...